Time to Act

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Faithful Citizenship

As you probably know from the news, the House has begun debate on a health care bill. Now is the time to weigh in. If you are having trouble wading through the material, I call your attention to the latest newsletter from the Maryland Catholic Conference. http://capwiz.com/mdcath/issues/alert/?alertid=14280056

Both in the health care debate and the same-sex marriage debate, many people wonder why the church is “getting into politics.”  In both cases, one could say that the church has always been a partner with the state. We are the single largest private provider of health care in the U.S.. When a priest witnesses the marriage of a couple, he represents both the church and the state. Unlike, many European, Central and South American countries in which couples must have a civil ceremony before a church wedding, in the U.S. this is not the case, the priest (or any minister) is given authority from the state to solemnize the marriage in the name of the state.

The Mission of the Laity

Perhaps, more importantly, it is the vocation of the lay person, by virtue of the prophetic charism of our  Baptism, that we bear Christ and the Good News to the world. It is the laity whom the church assumes will take the lead in building the reign of God by bringing the Gospel to bear on the issues of the day. This does not mean making the state Catholic, but rather taking seriously our responsibility to assess decisions, legislation, and law in light of our conscience and the teaching of the Church.

Religious Liberty

Both of these issues also raise serious questions about the Constitution’s protection of religious liberty and the practice of religion. Pope Benedict spoke to this issue in his address to the United Nations during his 2008 visit to the United States. To the U. N. General Assembly he said “It is inconceivable, then, that believers should have to suppress a part of themselves–their faith–in order to be active citizens. It should never be necessary to deny God in order to enjoy one’s rights….The full guarantee of religious liberty cannot be limited to the free exercise of worship, but has to give due consideration to the public dimension of religion, and hence to the possibility of believers playing their part in building social order” (General Assembly of the United Nations, 4/18/08).

The proposed legislation on both topics involve serious threats to both individuals and Catholic(and other religious) organizations to both meet the mandate to serve all of God’s people and to be able to preserve our freedom to live and teach the faith. It is unimaginable that the Church would limit the services of our schools, hospitals, social service agencies and other programs to Catholics only.  This, in and of itself,  is against the teaching of the Church. However, it is also unimaginable that we would place ourselves in a compromising position with regard to the Gospel.

The partnership of Church and State in the U.S has been enormously successful in building a school system and health care system that has educated and cared for millions of Americans.  It would be a tremendous loss to our communities to lose this partnership.

Silly things commonly said at funerals.

Adding to my thoughts on “grateful and brokenhearted”, one common mistake we make upon learning of someone’s death, is that we try to avoid or minimize our grief.  I think those who know us and love us but, were not necessarily as affected by the loss, want us to get past the grieving as quickly as possible.  So, frankly, in their attempts to help us, they do and say some silly things.

“Homegoing service”

Let start with calling a funeral a “Homegoing service.”  I have always been bothered by this!  I have begged my family to make sure that when I die, do let anyone call my funeral a “homegoing service.”  I need a funeral, not a “homegoing service.”  I need an evening of prayers followed by a Mass of Christian burial.  Why?  First of all, anything else it implies that no one is supposed to be sad at my death.  Not only are we supposed to be sad at the death of someone;  God is sad at the death of someone because, death was never part of His plan for us.  Death entered the world because of our sins, not because God planned it.  God will overcome it nonetheless.  But, to call the funeral rites a “homegoing service” confuses joy with hope.

My father died when I was only nine years old and there was NOTHING joyous about that.  I was sad then and over 30 years later, I get sad now.   Furthermore, I actually get resentful if someone suggests that I am not supposed to be sad anymore.  However, each time I pray for him, I am filled with hope.  That is what being a Catholic is all about; Hope.  And genuine Christian hope feels wonderful and can actually make you smile.

God needed another angel in heaven.

First off, we are not angels.  Angels are angels.  Human beings are human beings.  God does not need us to be an angel or anything else for that matter. Rather, God WANTS us to be part of the heavenly kingdom. To suggest that when a musician dies, God needed another player for some ethereal orchestra is silly.  The heavenly kingdom would get along fine without us.  Instead, God loves us and WANTS us to be part of it.  He does not NEED us.  How cruel and selfish would it be for God to cause pain and suffering because of some otherworldly essential?  God did not plan for your death or the death of your loved one.  He only planned His response, through His own death and resurrection.

We should not be sad today.

When I hear this, I want to scream, “Are you kidding?!”   When Lazarus died, Jesus wept.  When any of the faithful dies, I would like to think Jesus weeps.  I am convinced that Jesus shares our sadness.   However, unlike us sinners, Jesus responds to death with perfect love and hope.  Nonetheless, even though death has been overcome by Christ, the pain and sadness we feel initially is no different from the pain and sadness our own Mother Mary felt at the foot of the Cross.  When I preside at a funeral, I pray that the congregates leave with a renewed and sustained hope in the resurrection of their loved one.  But to suggest that one should not be sad or that one should not cry would be misguided at best, if not cruel.

Christ our Hope

During Pope Benedict’s visit to the United States, the theme “Christ our hope” was repeated throughout the visit.  Regarding Christian hope, the Catechism of the Catholic Church reads, “We firmly believe, and hence we hope that, just as Christ is truly risen from the dead and lives for ever, so after death the righteous will live for ever with the risen Christ and he will raise them up on the last day. Our resurrection, like his own, will be the work of the Most Holy Trinity:

If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will give life to your mortal bodies also through his Spirit who dwells in you. – Rom 8:11

Brothers and Sisters, as we commemorate the faithful departed today, let us weep if needed and let us be sad. Also, let us remember fondly our loved ones and, if possible recall a good memory or two.  But, most importantly, let us hope for the joy of the resurrection of all us.

Grateful and Brokenhearted

 

Sadness of Death

Recently, in response to an expression of sympathy, one of my wife’s colleagues was thanking friends and neighbors for their prayers after the recent death of her mother. She signed her thank you note, “Grateful and brokenhearted.”

This colleague is a faithful Christian and professes her belief in the resurrection of the body and life everlasting. Nonetheless, the grief of such a loss is very real and, at times, very painful. My wife and I thought that her signature, “grateful and brokenhearted,” captures the feeling many Christians experience as we mourn the loss of a loved one while remaining thankful to a merciful God.

All Souls Day

As we approach The Commemoration of All the Faithful Departed (All Souls Day), I would like to take the next few posts to explore grief and the ways a faithful Christian can express, and perhaps overcome, grief.

It begins with All Souls Day. At Masses throughout the world, we will hear the Evangelist John tell us that Jesus said, “For this is the will of my Father,
that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him
may have eternal life,
and I shall raise him on the last day.”

Let us start tomorrow by being grateful for a merciful God that loves us so much that he sent his only Son to save us. Let us also pray that God will mend our broken hearts as we remember the faithful departed in our prayers.

More on this in the coming days!

Mustard Seeds


Today I said to God in exasperation, “Life is so complicated! So many virtues to gain, so many vices to avoid!”

It does seem that way sometimes, but then during my prayer time this afternoon, I reread today’s gospel.

Jesus said, “What is the Kingdom of God like? To what can I compare it? It is like a mustard seed that a man took and planted in the garden. When it was fully grown, it became a large bush and the birds of the sky dwelt in its branches.”

Again he said, “To what shall I compare the Kingdom of God? It is like yeast that a woman took and mixed in with three measures of wheat flour until the whole batch of dough was leavened.”

Mustard seeds? Yeast granules? Pretty small stuff. Not very complicated. But their effects are large bushes and whole batches of dough!

This got me thinking about an experience I had with my friend this weekend. We were at a baptism, and as we were getting ready to leave the reception, he said he was going to go say good-bye to everyone. By “everyone” he meant everyone with whom he had had a meaningful conversation.

Wow! This was such a small gesture, yet the effect was quite large! Another opportunity for “nice meeting you”, “thank you”, “good luck”, and “God bless”. Another opportunity for a hug, a handshake, and a kiss on the cheek.

I was so impressed by this practice that I tried it out last night at a reception at my parish. As I was leaving, I went back to a older gentleman who was sitting at my table and asked his name again, shook his hand, and said goodbye so that if I see him around the parish I’ll be able to say “Hello Mario!”

What if building Christian community were that easy? What if we all planted little mustard seeds like this each chance we got?

Marriage Matters in DC–Lift Up Your Voice

Marr_JamWr09_webMonday, October 26 is a critical day for all those concerned about the legalization of same-sex marriage. If you are a resident of the District of Columbia and you are looking for opportunities to give voice to your concerns, there are a number of ways to lift up your voice.

Same-Sex Marriage legislation

The DC City Council will hear public testimony on Bill B18-482. This legislation would redefine marriage so it no longer is the union of one man and one woman. Please tell the Council “no” on B18-482.

Marriage Initiative Act of 2009

On the same day, the DC Board of Elections & Ethics will hear public testimony on the Marriage Initiative Act of 2009 that would uphold the definition of marriage as the union between a man and a woman. Please tell the Board “yes” on this initiative, which would give residents a vote on this significant issue.

 Here’s what you can do:

  • Attend the DC Board of Election & Ethics’ hearing, Monday, October 26, 10:30 a.m., 441 4th St. NW, Suite 250N (202-727-2525)
  • Attend the hearing of the City Council Committee on the Public Safety and Judiciary, Monday, October 26, starting at 3:30 p.m., John A. Wilson Building (Council Chamber), 1350 Pennsylvania Ave., NW
  • Submit written statements on B18-482 for the official record through November 9, 2009 to Ms. Deborah Kelly, Legislative Clerk, John A. Wilson Building, 1350 Pennsylvania Ave., NW, Room 5, Washington, DC 20004, or by email to [email protected]. Text of the bill is online at www.MarriageMattersDC.org.

Attend a Rally

In addition, on Sunday, October 25, Stand4MarriageDC is sponsoring a “People’s Rally,” 3:00 p.m.-5:00 p.m. at Freedom Plaza –14th St. and Pennsylvania Ave., NW.

And always we can call on the power of prayer, whether  we are residents or not  for we are all residents of the city of God! Please take some time on Monday, to offer a rosary, or pray before the Blessed Sacrament or attend Mass and ask the Holy Spirit’s guidance for all of the citizens and leaders involved in the proceedings.

Connecting Young Adults with Jesus Christ

On Saturday, I gave a presentation on Sons and Daughters of Light: A Pastoral Plan for Ministry with Young Adults at the Archdiocese of Washington’s annual Catechetical Day. Goal One of this pastoral plan is to connect young adults with Jesus Christ.

After watching this video, I realized that my prayer  is that every young adult would have such a personal experience with Jesus Christ. It’s powerful.   

Pondering Pithy Sayings

I have a love/hate relationship with slogans, philosophies of life, and pithy sayings. At one level I like the way they make me think. They sort of reduce all the complicated ways we think of things to a simple thought or insight. It’s good for a moment to cut through all the noise and consider “just one thing.” But that’s also my problem with these things. In reducing everything to one thing we lose the essential nuances and the sophistication that accept that not everything fits into a nice little saying.

For example, consider the saying “All things in moderation!” Well yes, moderation is a good thing most of the time. But there is also a time to throw moderation to the winds and become passionate about things. There is a time to fight (or celebrate) with gusto. Maybe its a fight for justice, or maybe we’re called to sell everything for the “pearl of great price.” So all right, “All things in moderation,… including moderation!” Anyway I hope you get the point about sayings and slogans: enjoy with caution and careful consideration.

The following video contains a very good collection of “philosophies of life.” Many of them I have never seen before and some of them are quite good. But remember, like analogies, many of the things said in them are as untrue as they are true. Consider them as a way to make you think: what is true about this saying? What is untrue? What distinctions are necessary, especially for a Christian? So think. But don’t think so hard that you fail to enjoy. Take what you like, take what is true and leave the rest.

How hard it is for those who have wealth to enter into the Kingdom of God

“How hard it is for those who have wealth to enter into the Kingdom of God.”

Let me add a little something to Msgr. Pope’s Meditations on Wealth.  I had a conversation with someone I consider materially wealthy.  And she said literally – I hate this Gospel passage.  I think I know why.  Because, like the rich man, she has many possessions.  And like the rich man, she is a person who tries to  obey the law.  So, what is wrong?

Brothers and sisters, one of the main effects of Jesus’ preaching was to reorder our priorities and redirect our desires.  In the Jewish culture of the time, material wealth was seen as direct reflection of God’s favor.  Throughout the Old Testament, God seemed to reward the faithful with material goods.  In the Book of Job, God “blessed the work of his hands and his livestock spread throughout the land.” In the Book of Psalms, we read, “What your hands provide you will enjoy; you will be happy and prosper.”  The prophet Isaiah says, “Happy the just, for it will be well with them, the fruits of their works, they will eat.”

In other words, Jewish society equated the acquisition of material wealth with the promise of redemption.  And Christ said no.  That is why the disciples were so amazed because Christ was telling them that the acquisition of material wealth might in fact hinder one’s ability to enter into the Kingdom of God.

Now, brothers and sisters, this is where I have heard some homilies and reflections on this Gospel go wrong.  This is the part where I have been told that material things are bad.  This is the part where I have been made to feel guilty because I drive a car now rather than riding a bus like when I was in college.   I submit to you however, that the desire you have for fulfillment is something God built into you and I think that desire is good.  I think God made desire a part of human emotion on purpose.  I think that each and every day, we seek fulfillment in one form or another.  But, I also think that material fulfillment is sometimes good, sometimes bad but always temporary.  Let me tell you and example of that kind of fulfillment.

My mother and I are pretty huge Redskins fans.  In fact, my mother, my wife and a good number of my uncles and cousins have a veritable family reunion each Sunday the Redskins are at home.  Whether the team is good or bad, we are there.

Well, three years ago, we were playing that awful team from Texas.  Late in the game, the score was tied and that awful team from Texas was about to kick a field goal and win the game.  They kicked the ball, it was blocked, and the Redskins recovered the ball and started running the other way.  Then, right when we thought the game was going into overtime, the referee called a penalty on that awful team from Texas and within 30 seconds, the Redskins were in position to kick a field goal.  We kicked it and won the game.  The stadium erupted. We cheered as we left our seats.  We cheered as we got to the parking lot and we even cheered getting into the car.  And, here I was in my thirties but I felt ten years old again and I said to my mom, “Mom, I wish this night would never end!”

Well, it did and so did that feeling of euphoria that went with it.  And this is an example of how temporal wealth and temporal fulfillment is temporary.  And that is OK, as long as I know it.  The rich man in this gospel did not.  He was seeking fulfillment.  That is why he came to Christ in the first place.  Redskin tickets or any other earthly possession certainly will not provide me with satisfaction every Sunday.  But Christ will!  In fact, if my family and I failed to go to Mass on Saturday or first thing Sunday morning, I am quite certain that Jesus would say to us, “Go sell what you have and follow me.”  The danger of material wealth does not lie in the possessions themselves.  Rather, it lies in the fact that material wealth, temporal power and earthly merit all tend to generate false security.  Wealth tends to make us think that we have somehow earned these things on our own without God’s providence.  Temporal power tempts us to ignore God and not rely on his goodness.  Earthly merit tends to make us forget the true source of our sustainable joy in Christ.  That is why Jesus rejects wealth, power and merit as a claim to his Kingdom.

Look carefully at the scripture;  the Evangelist Mark tell us that Jesus, looking at the rich man, loved him – loved him and said to him, “You are lacking one thing.  Go, sell what you have, and give to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven.”  Treasure in heaven is the same thing as everlasting fulfillment.  Jesus did not reject the man because of his wealth no more than he would have accepted him because of his wealth.  Jesus indentified one thing that was hindering his relationship with God; God built in us a desire for fulfillment and perhaps the rich man was literally looking for love in all the wrong places.  That is why some people I consider rich don’t seem to have enough.

For me, if you have a million dollars, I wonder ‘why are you out there trying to make more?’  A million dollars would seem to be enough for me.  But, for those whose eyes are not on Christ, for those who are seeking fulfillment from wealth rather than from Christ, a million dollars is not enough.  For those type of people, 10 million dollars would not be enough.  I think that this is at the heart of some addictions; the ultimate seeking of eternal fulfillment in temporary things.  And in our attempt to make that fulfillment eternal, it ends up being damaging.

Again, it may not be money or possessions. There are plenty of materially wealthy people whose wealth is not a hindrance to their salvation.  I suspect that those people are well grounded in the satisfaction of a growing relationship with God.     In fact, I suspect that for most of us, it is not money or possessions. The football example I gave had very little to do with the material possession of Redskins season tickets.  But, if my investment of emotion is in the time spent with my family, then the possibility of sustained fulfillment increases.  It is still temporary but, it makes God smile too.

Nonetheless, the everlasting fulfillment, the kind of fulfillment that made me say to my mother, “I wish this night could last forever” can only be found Christ.

Brothers and sisters, it is indeed difficult for a rich man to enter into the Kingdom of heaven, especially if the rich man thinks he has already gained entry.  We have not.  But, for those of us who have chosen to faithfully follow Christ, and to shed not all material things, just those material things that are in our way, Jesus promised, “Amen, I say to you,
 there is no one who has given up house or brothers or sisters 
or mother or father or children or lands
 for my sake and for the sake of the gospel 
who will not receive a hundred times more now in this present age.”  This is so cool because, Jesus is not really saying that you have to wait for fulfillment.  We have to wait for eternal everlasting fulfillment but, genuine fulfillment, though temporary, is possible now.  And by following Christ, even when he tells us to do something difficult, fulfillment can increase every day until one day, it becomes eternal.